"Hope", a word which defines our living i.e. the only thing stronger than fear, Well, i think we all are hoping onto something to hope for. Ain't it? There's also this saying, " hope for the best & be ready for the worst ", now what it means is that what we can do our best possible we should do that and should always be ready for any possible outcomes ahead
Let's get into an example of a relationship, where two people make certain specific commitments to each other regarding themselves. But, why is it that they fail to keep up with those commitments? There could be many reasons to it such as,
1. It maybe possible that either of them has lost his/her interest into the other one.
2. The understanding level of the two has a wide gap.
3. Ignorance towards each others thoughts/ ideas.
4. Lack of interest in each other's life.
These could be the possible reasons as to why the commitments made by people often fail. It's all upto them, if they really want to keep up with you , they definitely will and if not, they definitely would not..But, the real shit going on is with the either of the one who is more emotionally attached to that other person. That person might be living with a very little "hope" of that everything would get fine with time or maybe that the other one will get back realizing his/her fault. But, can't say anything 🙂 since its all about that little hope, that we carry inside our heart thinking of the positive things to be by our side.
But, lately we realize that all that happens is for our own good. It might be that you may feel depressed earlier at times but a long way there we realize the importance of the good that actually happened to our lives.
But, let me tell you that the relationship that lasts long involves in it a lot of forgiveness. Either of the two people have to accept the fact that your partner isn't perfect and will surely hurt you or disappoint you (maybe knowingly or unknowingly). Its again upto you that if you want your commitment to survive in the long run, you'll have to put in the efforts so that, it all gets willingly figured out.
I do know that it isn't easy, to learn living without them. But my dear young people, you all will have to build yourself, so strong, so complete, that you don't feel any emptiness (void) inside your heart when they go.
Just trust the timing of your life and keep faith in all the good things coming ahead. All you need to overcome this is patience. Take your own time to get over it and once you are done with it, never turn back again to them and find your happiness within you.
