WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME?

  Well, you all might be familiar with the word, 'judging'. Okay, so here I would like to let you all know about it, in a deeper way.

So, basically the word 'to judge' means, 'to form an opinion about something or someone', which most oftenly turns out to be a negative one.  You know people nowadays are so judgemental about anything and everything they see around them. Like, i must say that without giving a second thought, they just pass their ideas out  and these expressive ideas of theirs often turn out to be "negative judgements".

I just want to ask my crowd, do you really need to judge someone onto any basis? Like, have you all ever peeped once inside your own selves? Have you got some authority to judge someone onto some stupid basis of yours?

I think the crowd nowadays is really void of work, so they have got no reasons to focus onto themselves, rather they just keep on pointing out onto someone everytime. You know, here, if you are friends with any opposite gender, people will pass comments about you, would judge you in an insensitive way. Though i really don't know, what could be a solution to this?

Also that, if there are two friends, in an opposite gender, if their vibe matched, and if they made it to 'good friends', then is it your matter to talk about? What someone wishes to wear is also not your cup of tea? So, who are you to judge someone? I pity onto those who try to poke their nose in between, and like how does it hampers you, like, what would you get if you even talk about it? What's the need of doing such things?

You know, there are certain people who would appear good on your face and would portray as if, they really care about you and if something affects you, it affects them, But you know what, you need not trust such people, because these are the real backbitchers that bitch about you negatively, in every possible way. These are the first ones, to guess about you if, you've got something fishy with your friend(or, friends as in male/ female ones). 

Well, i don't know, how most of you are able to do this? Maybe that, you all are not mature enough to understand the bond, that could be created in between friends. Moreover, i think, its just that people want to gossip about every little thing that they get to see.

JUST GROW UP YOU FUCKIN* PEOPLE!, OR else you may have to bear the further consequences.

Probably, you all might have not been through the consequences, of people backbitching about you, even it could make you cry sometimes, make you tremble, make you feel unconfident about yourself, make you feel neglected, make you feel alone. WELL, it might be a wastage to explain some of you such things, cause then i think the reason to this could be stated as, that your parents haven't taught you the basic manners and you know, it clearly depicts your mental level, and that you definitely won't be able to make a mental progress.

And to the people, who just face these stupid things, I hope you rely on yourself, God is always there to listen to you, even if no one's there to hear you out. Just believe onto good things, good people and try to create a positive environment around you and just fuck those bastards, they'll definitely end up fucking themselves. 

SINCE, YOU COULD NOT MAKE IT...

 Its been a year since, i posted anything. Well, here i am again, to let you all know about it all!

I'd just like to ask y'all, how does betrayal really, feels like? well, if you really want to know, its right here.

So, it all just started so random, as the girl named, Aish, often used to think in her mind of the man she always dreamt of, and still continues to dream of, must be a Doctor by profession and must be responsible enough  to manage things by his own. And would you guys just believe, what happened the next?

Ya, y'all thought it right, when there entered a MBBS pursuing boy, Hank (an egoist, full of attitude which he got out of 'MBBS' ofcourse, that too from a so called private medical college, you know what i mean) , whom she'd say as, wasn't a man enough(for Aish).  This boy just entered into Aish's life out of nowhere and since Aish was unsure about Hank, as she didn't knew him, that cunning boy, very beautifully, managed to please her in all possible ways and ofcourse, the girl was so much influenced by his thoughts, his ideas and his passion (probably which seemed to be fake after, what all he just did) and most of it that he "claimed to love her". 

All was going well for one month, until the girl noticed some changes in that boy's attitude towards her, the way he used to avoid her, and asked for all the rubbish things which, he basically demonstrated to be as, "love" claiming that a relationship doesn't only includes love but also love-making (lust you know). The boy was somewhere acting smart in his own sense, though the girl didn't got to know the things real soon, but she used to have a lot of anxiety and you won't believe it guys, this boy used to remain in her mind all day and night, she was unable to focus on anything as her anxiety didn't let her to; Though Aish got some instincts of the boy that he's somewhere cheating on her, she used to believe his lies to a far greater extent as she was so much into him and  trusted him above all, cause the boy had so much influence over her that she couldn't just imagine a man like him.

Still, Aish managed to act right and get over all sort of instincts, but we all have heard of "jooth zada din tak nahi chipta", one fine day the girl, out of somewhere after getting so much of negligence, finally thought of spilling the game, where she with all the proves got to know that she was being cheated on, by his own man whom she trusted blindly and gave him, all her heart. 

The girl  played a brave move of , asking him , "why did you just cheat on me, what did i do, where was i wrong?" that you did this to me instead? and the boy was like "why? what happened? and then, that" nahi hopara tha tere sath....."

Till date, She keeps asking herself, "WHY DID YOU CAME, WHEN YOU DIDN'T WANTED TO STAY..ATER ALL IT WAS ALL  YOUR CHOICE FOR, ME BEING THERE IN, THEN WHY YOU JUST BACKED OUT, WHAT TYPE OF PERSON YOU EXACTLY WERE?". The girl somehow managed to be on her own, and that, never to see this fellow's face again ever in her life, who just ruined her so bad...she was in tears, all broken, and couldn't just let anyone know of, what just was going in her head, rather just sharing it up with one of her real best friends, Catherine who, not only boosted her up and, never to allow such shit in her life again, and that not waiting for anyone, Hereby, ending up with, "The right one who's meant for you, will be there with you and you won't have to search for him or, beg to him for, him being him"; it would all just happen by itself, you just need not worry

Aish rather motivated herself (though all messed up, in her head and heart, questioning her worth), deciding not to look back anymore, and decide to look forward to find her happiness within herself and in all the little things, She still smiles and giggles for the things she enjoys being a part of. 

All her way over this, earlier, she used to pray to God, to punish Hank, but now that, she's somewhat over it, she prays to god, to bless that man and may that all good happen to him, but, whatever he did to her, then when, she needed him instead...he left her , should be repayed to him in every possible sense, to make him realize of, not to betray someone , maybe who'd have loved him the way, no one ever would have.

I just wanna ask my crowd, is it too difficult or, too egoistic for a person, to put in  the effort, so that the things could have gone the way they should have been?

Why do people fear truth, when they don't really fear to perform other vulnerable tasks?

HOPING ONTO SOMETHING TO HOPE FOR...

 "Hope", a word which defines our living i.e. the only thing stronger than fear, Well, i think we all are hoping onto something to hope for. Ain't it? There's also this saying, " hope for the best & be ready for the worst ", now what it means is that what we can do our best possible we should do that and should always be ready for any possible outcomes ahead

 Let's get into an example of a relationship, where two people make  certain specific commitments to each other regarding themselves. But, why is it that they fail to keep up with those commitments? There could be many reasons to it such as, 

1. It maybe possible that either of them has lost his/her interest into the other one.

2. The understanding level of the two has a wide gap.

3. Ignorance towards each others thoughts/ ideas.

4. Lack of interest in each other's life. 

These could be the possible reasons as to why the commitments made by people often fail. It's all upto them, if they really want to keep up with you , they definitely will and if not, they definitely would not..But, the real shit going on is with the either of the one  who is more emotionally attached to that other person. That person might be living with a  very little "hope" of that everything would get fine with time or maybe that the other one will get back realizing his/her fault. But, can't say anything 🙂 since its all about that little hope, that we carry inside our heart thinking of the positive things to be by our side.

But, lately we realize that all that happens is for our own good. It might be that you may feel depressed earlier at times but a long way there we realize the importance of the good that actually happened to our lives. 

But, let me tell you that the relationship  that lasts long involves in it a lot of forgiveness. Either of the two people have to accept the fact that your partner isn't perfect and will surely hurt you or disappoint you (maybe knowingly or unknowingly). Its again upto you that if you want your commitment to survive in the long run, you'll have to put in the efforts so that, it all gets willingly figured out. 

I do know that it isn't easy, to learn living without them. But my dear young people, you all will have to build yourself, so strong, so complete, that you don't feel any emptiness (void) inside your heart when they go.

Just trust the timing of your life and keep faith in all the good things coming ahead. All you need to overcome this is patience. Take your own time to get over it and once you are done with it, never turn back again to them and find your happiness within you.